Gonna rant abit tonight,so pls bear with me.....
its been 1 week since school started and I feel like life has been drained out of me...
I'm always super busy running here and there or im involved in ccas and activities...which is quite worrying for a start as I havent touch my books at all.
Moving on,this semester,ive decided to go out of my comfort zone and hence I took an entrepreneurship elective.Hoping that it will miraculously help pull my grades up...but to my horror I just realised that this elective happen to fall on a saturday and there is this pitching graded session on 30 aug which means that I will not be able to attend color run this year. How awful can my week get...not only that..It also dawn upon me that hall 2 dnd falls on 29 aug...which means thaat I wont be able to go as I need the day to calm down and fully prepare for my graded pitching lesson the next day. Hahaa okayyy joke of the year! Hate that elective now...
Moving on......
Just some random thoughts about love...a friend asked me this recently, what is love? How do you know if someone is really in love with the person or are they just in love with the idea of Love itself?
I was equally confused as well and I didnt know how to answer her as they both seem like the same thing to me. It was only till recently that I found out the answer.
Love is a very powerful concept,but I guess what defines it, is whether you wanna be in love with that one person only, or that you like being in love,thus as long as youre in love...who that person is doesnt really matter as long as you like him and he like you back.
And so the question is,how do you know which one you belong to??
Well,my answer to that is that you will know that you only wanna love that one person if you no longer have interest in any other people of the opposite sex. No matter how much more goodlooking or smarter or richer that person is. You no longer seek to look for a better partner because you already deem the one that you have as THE BEST already.Hence even if there comes a scenario that a better one comes along,your choices would still be the same. And maybe I guess this kinda draws a define line between people who jumpship and those who dont.
While those people who merely like the idea of being in love...more often than not, theyre just obsessed with the notion of love...and thus they are more likely to jumpship when a better one comes along as the bond that they have is not to their partner,but the idea of being in love....and hence if they think tt the other party is capable of giving them more love or showering them with more care and attention that they are currently having now,chances of them leaving would be pretty high.
Hence,in my opinion,it is really important to distinguish if you really love the person or youre just in love with the concept of LOVE itself...
Because you can fall in love with anyone,but that anyone could only be looking for that special one
Ps: these are only my opinions and hence, not everyone might agree on this
Cheers!
Pattie
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