LDR

well....I would be kidding if i tell you that my LDR relationship have been smooth all the time

Indeed there are happy times, happy when you can finally skype, happy when you see how the other party is having fun and enjoying themselves.


But things are not so smooth and happy all the time....
There are times when you see all those beautiful pictures and food that he has posted, and you cant help but feel a little left out? Its like you feel sad that you cant be there...

There are times when something exciting or something bad happen in your day, but you just can't tell your partner because somehow he/she might be traveling and there isnt data connection.

There are times when you're surrounded by couples and you cant help but feel a little lonely and wish that your partner will come back soon.

There are times when LDR can be draining when you skype till 2-3am everyday and you struggle to wake up for morning classes tmr

There are times when you miss the person so much ,you just wanna go over and hug them...but oh, you forgot that what you're seeing in front of you is all but a virtual screen. Even when you wanna reach out to him, you can't. Maybe the only place you can reach out to him is in your dreams.


No amt of virtual chat sessions can replace the real hugs and face to face chat sessions.

and here I am, wondering how long it would be, before someone get use to LDR.

Can someone actually get used to LDR?? Like maybe after a long period of time, will someone grow to like a virtual boyfriend instead?

Well, If you ever see those perfect LDR stories on tumbler or thought catalog....let me tell you this
They are LYING.... LDR is not as easy or as blissful as how it looks like on the internet...but i know maybe if you put in enough hard work, It'll work.

Can't sleep, and I'm deeply disturbed by the negative effects of LDR